I was recently asked to join the advisory board for the Denver Health Connections for Kids Clinic, a grant-based effort that enables the Denver Health and Hospital Authority to provide primary care health services to foster children in cooperation with the Denver Department of Human Services and the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center. All foster children in Denver County are seen at the Connections for Kids Clinic, and I have gotten to know the clinic’s medical staff by taking several foster kids to them over the past several years. My role on the advisory board will be to attend quarterly meetings and speak on behalf of foster parents by sharing my clinic experiences, voicing any concerns, and helping to discover ways to improve the clinic.

The invitation to join the advisory board came from the medical director at the Denver Family Crisis Center, who is also an attending pediatrician at Denver Health and The Children’s Hospital, and a professor of pediatrics at the University of Colorado. I am honored to have been invited onto the advisory board, and I am excited to begin lending my voice at the next board meeting.

That gray hair and wrinkles don’t hurt.
For great inventions, like toilets and remote controls.
That Friday is never more than seven days away.
For alarm clocks, especially the snooze and off buttons.
That my kids like when mac and cheese constitutes dinner.
For the ability to laugh, love and dream.

Ed and I had the opportunity to speak to foster parents in training last night, as we have done several times over the past couple of years. Catholic Charities is wrapping up a core training session for new foster parents, and we were invited to speak about our foster care and adoption journey. The new trainees’ interests included both traditional foster care and foster-to-adopt placements, and their preferred ages ranged from infants to teenagers. We enjoyed spending an hour speaking about our beautiful adopted children, discussing our various foster care and adoption experiences, and imparting our own words of wisdom on those who are answering the call for foster parents. I could sense the nervous energy and enthusiasm in the room, and I’m excited for these soon-to-be foster parents. To all who are embarking on their own foster care journey, I thank you for making an incredible commitment to kids in need of loving foster homes!

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• Public relations is not an event. It is always a process, a planned effort to influence opinion.
• It is both an art and a science. It requires creativity, communication and coordination.
• There’s no magic in it. Successful campaigns are timely, relevant, factual and well-executed.

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It’s National Foster Care Month, a time to heighten the visibility of foster care and salute all those who make a difference by serving as foster parents, relative caregivers, mentors, advocates, social workers and volunteers. May’s National Foster Care Month appropriately follows on the heels of April’s National Child Abuse Prevention Month, a time to raise awareness about child abuse and neglect, and encourage individuals and communities to support children and families. Far too many children in our country are victims of abuse and neglect, and when they end up in foster care, compassionate people are needed to make a positive impact on their lives.

National Foster Care Month originated in 1988 when the National Foster Parent Association persuaded the late Senator Strom Thurmond to introduce a resolution proclaiming May as National Foster Care Month, which in turn was proclaimed by President George H.W. Bush every year of his presidency. Today, Casey Family Programs leads the effort in partnership with other organizations representing over 250,000 individuals and providers. Their “change a lifetime” campaign spotlights the importance of permanency for the 496,000 children in foster care.

Ed and I aren’t foster parents for the recognition. While we enjoy an annual dinner celebration and other events this month, we don’t need to be recognized for our work as foster parents. And there isn’t money in foster care either. Foster parents are given a stipend to help offset the costs of caring for foster kids, but we are always (often by choice) out more money than we receive. We are foster parents because we believe there are good children out there who have been the unfortunate victims of abuse and neglect, and regardless of their past or family circumstances, we know that all kids deserve a childhood full of love, laughter and well-being. It’s our way of giving back - providing the kids in our care a safe and comfortable haven, a warm and loving home, and the chance to grow and flourish. We’ve also been blessed to build our family this way.

I’d like to acknowledge some people in our lives who share our commitment to foster children …

• The amazing foster care team at Catholic Charities, with us at every step of our journey.
• The wonderful case workers we’ve worked closely with in Denver and Arapahoe Counties.
• The judges, GALs and therapists who have changed the lives of our children for the better.
• My sister Molly, halfway to her MSW, and others in the next generation of social workers.
• My parents who are former foster parents, and my mom who is a current CASA worker.

It truly does take a village. And you can be one of the many villagers foster children need in their lives. In fact, there are so many more children in need of foster care than there are foster parents available today. Lots of online resources can help you learn about becoming a foster parent. I recommend starting with the NFPA or your state or local department of human services.

[Source: National Foster Care Month]